The lack of genuine love and "down-to-earth" relationships creates some real turmoil in the world, aside from everything else there is to deal with in life. A good start would be to stop feeding into the falsehoods of New-Age media, marketing and lifestyles and definitely stop being followers (like those who think Reality TV is genuine human entertainment).
There are genuine New-Age things out there, but they certainly are not publicized in mainstream media, and if they are, then do your research and find out the truth about them on your own.
The attractive females who show on the site are mostly inactive, arrogant, egotistical, looking just to play games with innocent men to make themselves feel more attractive, or probably already found someone (whether through or not) and never deleted their profile because doesn't give you a clear option to do so.
Most dating websites at least give you the option to delete or remove your account, whereas seems to leave this feature out for some reason (or make it well hidden), so that it looks like they have a ton of members to choose from.
They are into all of the television, media and interpersonal lies that are portrayed to the mass population.