Dating like me
A common time to suggest another date is at the end of the first one.
Suggesting something (other than going back to someone's place) after dinner is a solid indication that your date's asking for an encore.
"A masochist like myself might ask a girl to spend more time with him if he's not enjoying her company," Santos says, but if they're willing to extend the date past the "easy out" first location of a bar or coffee shop, that's a good sign."Sometimes I get so excited during a first date I play my cards by suggesting other things we should do together," says Santos, though timing may not be that immediate.
but assuming that they like you in the way that you want them to…
well, that usually leads to them actually liking you!
When you start dating someone and haven't established exclusivity, says Santos, it's always important to measure signs that the other person is as on-board as you are.