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If you feel you must date, be as discreet as possible, preferably not allowing anyone to know you are dating.
Wait until a reasonable time after the divorce is over before introducing your friend to your children.
It so happens that that is often done via what a relationship and its problems has to teach them. If we say there is, then we deprive people of learning, and hopefully communicating, about how they really feel and also to work through the relationship outside of its imposed rules, which is where two people have the greatest opportunity to come together in honesty as human beings.
Do not blame your spouse for becoming irrationally angry and your children for becoming resentful and alienated from you.
Accept responsibility for your own decisions, and accept the potentially dramatic consequences of your actions.
He did say he wants me to read some of what he has written because he can’t process and articulate correctly in person. He did say he feels he is accomplishing something with his therapy to uncover his reasons for lying. I shared some of my little personal growth moments from the last week.
He didn’t start an argument, he wasn’t sulky, and he didn’t act angry, but he also wasn’t engaging or interesting. He asked what I had been doing, told me he was doing “nothing” and shared that he has been writing and working his book. He was full of excuses about looking for a new job even though this one is apparently awful and pays shit (basically his assessment).
I don't usually see that much concern about being honest to the person outside the two-some.