Getting into sex chatting conversations
Whether you want to brag or blow off steam about your sex life, your BFF can be a great person to turn to.
But before you open up to someone other than your partner, set some ground rules, says Kuriansky.
Communication during sex isn’t just about dirty talk.
It’s understandable if sex talk makes you blush, after all you’re opening up about something very intimate.
But with a little practice, it should become empowering, fun, and completely normal.
” or “That feels good, keep doing that.” Positive affirmation is simple but useful. Just check your parents or housemates aren’t in first. Ask them how they’re doing, if they like that, or if you can try something out. This respect will ensure everyone is more comfortable. Move it however feels good and let your faces make all the shapes it needs to give your partner a good indication of how you’re feeling. Head here to share how you communicate in the bedroom, and help us continue the consent conversation.
Non-verbally, the ol’ guiding-their-hand-to-where-the-good-spot-is trick can never be underestimated. But the most important thing to remember is that you come first (pun not intended). On that note, consent is the most important part of sexual communication.
The best sexual experiences will come from talking about sex openly and honestly.