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I’ll tell you what you’ll be doing: having sex with lots of attractive women while looking for Ms.

Our mental blueprints (including our money blueprints) are deeply ingrained and tough to change. For instance, I fight an ongoing battle against a scarcity mindset.

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Scarcity mentality dating

We have one last project to do before we believe we're finished: We want to replace the rotting back deck install a hot tub.

(This was the first project we had planned to tackle when we moved in, but we had to put it off for more pressing priorities.) Kim and I know without a doubt that we'll use the deck and hot tub nearly every single day of the year.

If you look back on those four years, I’m quite sure that you’ll find that most of that time you were probably just having fun and banging chicks after the last relationship you had that didn’t work out, not being a serious male provider hunter looking for a girlfriend or wife. If you feel like killing yourself just because a woman left you, even if you don’t actually mean it but feel that bad, what does that say about you?

So if, out of those four years, you spent 2.5 years just getting laid and having fun, then it didn’t take you four years to find her. So stop being a dumbass and artificially expanding the numbers to make your bullshit pity-party look worse than it really is. Go here and look at how I actually had to shut down the comments in that thread because dumped guys were threatening to kill themselves, all because their girlfriends broke up with them.

I've been reluctant to talk about scarcity and abundance because the terms have been co-opted by “Law of Attraction” types who use them to encourage magical thinking. I want to discuss them from a psychological perspective.

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