Sex when dating
Often the emotional connection fizzles and stops growing if sex occurs too early, and becomes your primary focus because good sex (and good sex alone) is not the means to a long-lasting and loving relationship.
If you want more than a sexual relationship, you must be willing to invest time and energy into getting to know each other outside of the bedroom.
I know there’s no black or white answer, but it’s hard for me to know when it feels “right” for me. A: Sexual decision making is tricky for most of us.
There are so many different factors at play — the excitement of being with someone new, social expectations, gender roles, not to mention sex drives and hormones!
When you don’t know your date well and you haven’t spent significant time together, you are more likely to misread cues and struggle to fully understand the person, and vice versa.
This reality can easily create miscommunication and misunderstanding.
But how often do we actually hear the nitty-gritty details of how we might actually achieve those things?