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They suggest ice-breakers for first messages, and the profiles are more in-depth than Tinder.For people who like a little extra hand-holding, CMB isn't the worst option.
You can still send a message -- it just won't show up in the recipient's inbox unless you match.
Because who doesn't enjoy sending a thoughtful message to someone who might never see it?
Profiles are much more in-depth than most dating sites, and if you answer a seemingly endless series of questions, they will spit out a reasonable Match/Enemy percentage ratio on profiles to help you gauge compatibility.
Changes in the last year have made Ok Cupid a bit more like Tinder, focusing more on swiping and eliminating the ability to message a user without matching with them first.
Also because women must message first, Bumble tends to weed out the slightly more insecure males.